Are you what people call a “nice guy”? Someone who goes out of his way to please everyone - to make them happy. Are you one of those nice guys that never seems to get anywhere with women? You do everything you can to please her, you’re her shoulder to lean on, her first venue for advice, but the last person she calls up for a booty call. So what’s the problem? Girls like nice guys don’t they?
Most girls are NOT attracted to nice guys, even though they will argue differently.
You see, girls like a challenge. They like men with authority, someone who will lead them through interesting situations, engage them, and make them feel secure. Nice guys might be there for advice, but do they take charge and lead the interactions? Are nice guys wild in the bedroom - can they make that beautiful women scream for more? Will nice guys be able to handle an intense situation with a calm attitude, or will they crack under the pressure?
Don’t get me wrong..women do like certain qualities of nice guys, and they aren’t necessarily looking for “bad boys” either. The problem is nice guys just don’t exude the right qualities for the women to have feelings of attraction toward him. Sure, they think he’s a great guy - but not a guy they could date, that would just be wierd!
For a further example of the nice guy concept take a look at Ode to the Nice guy..
Ode to the nice guy is a popular article that has been spreading around the internet like a wild fire. Why is it so popular? BECAUSE ITS TRUE!
Ok, so we know nice guys rarely have the success they want with women..
Want to hear the good part about being a nice guy though?
If you can be a nice guy AND create intense feelings of attraction in women - YOU WILL BE UNSTOPPABLE!
So enough about all of this nice guy stuff - why are women like apples?
Take a look at this nifty little post, and read it carefully… Read Why Girls are Like Apples
Well, you see..men have a tendency to fear approaching women. Especially beautiful women. So instead men pick the low hanging fruit. These women often don’t satisfy us and we probably don’t satisfy them either, but yet we settle down - build lives, have kids and eventually fade away - all with this low hanging fruit.
Like the apple on a tree, women who are more beautiful rarely get picked simply because men are too scared of approaching them. Instead they’re left to feel like there is something wrong with them. So when a man who has enough confidence and courage to talk to these georgeous women (both inside and out) he strikes gold. She’s all over him and he’s all over her - it couldn’t be better.
Instead of being the person standing at the base of the apple tree picking off the low lying fruit, get some balls my friend make good use of them. Get over your fear of approaching women, get out there and live your life and reap the rewards.
ELOCHUKS
October 17, 2008
Haha that apple tree analogy is pretty cool..
I’ll agree about the nice guy theory too, women seem to like nice guys but never really want to be with them sexually.
Like they say nice guys finish last!