If you’re out and about practicing your pick up and approach skills on beautiful women - chances are you’ve run into the old boyfriend line. Things may be going well when all of a sudden you say something and she responds with “I don’t think my boyfriend would like that.” or “Sorry, but I have a boyfriend”.
Is a boyfriend REALLY an obstacle?
Well that depends on the girl, how good you are at creating attraction and whether or not the boyfriend is standing right next to you staring you down.
Let me tell you a story…
I was in a small city not long ago and the pub I was at was having a star search. Because of the star search a few of the local radio DJ’s were at the pub - and they happened to be three sexy girls. I was standing outside with my friend when all three of them walked out. They were snickering to themselves and making funny faces..I was able to catch on to the fact they were making fun of somebody’s smile. I quickly piped up and said “You know guys (its better to say guys then girls), there may be some hideous people out there who weren’t blessed with beautiful smiles - but what makes you think your smile is so perfect?”. All three of them stopped and stared at me and my friend - a little shocked with what they had heard.
After a short silence one of the girls said “You know you’re right but I just couldn’t help myself - every time I looked at her I start laughing!” followed by a crooked smile and a short chuckle. I was in. The girls, being radio DJ`s were quick witted themselves and tried hard to belittle me and my friend. We had heard one of the girls on the radio making fun of “skinny bitches” however, and one of her friends was definitely a “skinny bitch” so I made sure to make that known. When I said this the girl lifted her friends shirt up and showed me and my friend her (perfect) stomach. Instead of showing my awe I said “Wow, she is a skinny bitch - isn’t she”. Her friend replied by saying “Thanks for showing my stomach to the whole world!” - apparently me and my friend were the “whole world”. Immediately after the girl who was making fun of skinny bitches on the radio said “Yeah, here we have Europe (touching me gently on the arm) and over here we have Africa (pointing to my friend who doesn’t look African but strangely enough just got back from Africa).
By now I could tell that she was definitely attracted to me and If I played it right at the very least I could setup a date and get her contact information. At this point I excused myself and went inside. Later on I approached the skinny bitch hater while she was sitting with a few of her friends - both guys and girls. Here I was chatting away with her, flirting with her and definitely creating feelings of attraction. She was beautiful and I was doing very well.
After a few minutes of this, we got on to the topic of her work. It turns out she used to work for the competing radio station - who also had a few people at the table we were seated at. I cracked a joke about the competition and right after she finished laughing she said “That’s funny I’m actually dating the competition!”. Boom! The words had been said. Right then I looked over about 2 feet to her left there was a greasy looking guy wearing a t-shirt for the competing radio station. I knew then he had been there all along - watching, listening and secretly hating me. Instead of backing off like many other men might have done I did just the opposite…
Without missing a beat I suggested her and the “competition” join me at another pub for a live band the following night. Sure enough she agreed much to the chagrin of her boyfriend. The next night the three of us met up, had a few drinks and after a few hours her boyfriend wandered off - leaving the two of us alone. We ended up making out that night. A few months later she called me up again and we had supper followed by great sex. All because I never lost personal authority when she mentioned her boyfriend. I was persistent, confident and had more authority then her boyfriend - and therefore more attraction.
So always remember, if a girl mentions a boyfriend - make sure to establish authority over him. If he’s around - introduce yourself first, if he’s not, mention that you’d like to introduce yourself. If you ask her out, and she says she has a boyfriend, ask her if he wants to come to. Use your imagination but don’t let a boyfriend discourage you. If the girl is attracted to you a boyfriend is not going to stop her and it shouldn’t stop you either.
ELOCHUKS
November 6, 2008
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