We’ve all been there, we’re talking to a beautiful women and lo and behold we have nothing left to say. Some kind of muttering comes out of your mouth as you struggle to find your next words. She knows your struggling and with every second that goes by your chances of hooking up with her dwindle until they finally disappear. You have nothing left to say so you say goodbye and part ways.

How to Keep The Conversation Flowing

The key to keeping a conversation going with a women is finding out what her main interests are. To do this you need to fish around a little bit with some generic conversation - and when she responds pay very close attention. If she responds with enthusiasm to a certain topic - roll with it. Ask her more questions about it, share stories you might have about the subject and keep the ball rolling. I call these topics of interest “hot topics” - meaning the girl will have a lot to say about them and be interested in the conversation.

A hot topic can be anything - from school, politics, events, work, sports etc. Just make sure you pay attention to the cues she gives you so you can pick up on her “hot topics” and exploit them. When you do find a hot topic make sure to display your interest in it, and LISTEN to what she says. When you take the time to listen intently you’ll find it easier to continue on the conversation by going off on tangents.

In summary, use small talk to find hot topics of interest, display interest in these hot topics and use them to keep the conversation going, listen to what the girl is saying and go from there!

Of course, practice makes perfect and with practice it will get easier to find a girls hot topics. Soon enough you won’t be a bumbling idiot when talking to beautiful women!

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