Actually I am the topper of the branch .
In my class also she doesn’t speak to other’ s except her friend . Now i am in the big dilema that SHE IS LOVING ME OR NOT ?
PLEASE HELP ME .
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You see, this isn’t about going out and picking up women for random one night stands. Sure, some men will use the information for just that - but they would be out doing that regardless, and I can’t help that.
But what about the nice guys out there that are just ignored by beautiful women such as yourself. What if the man of your dreams didn’t know how to approach you because he is scared of your beauty. Sure, it isn’t natural to be scared by beauty, but in this day and age with the media and society imposing on us, it becomes instilled in men whether they like it or not.
There are literally thousands of men out there who want nothing more then a meaningful relationship but for them, it’s not so easy. Maybe they were from a broken home, or maybe they just lost their self confidence somewhere along the road. Why should they not have the chance to meet someone who is good for them? Why should they settle for less? Sometimes all it takes is a push in the right direction, an opening of the eyes and their true self is able to shine.
Would you rather be placed on a pedestal and have decent men just ignore you because they think you are too beautiful, or would you rather these men learn to be natural with you and share who they really are. Not all men are out there “looking for a screw”, or basing attraction on looks alone. Beauty is something that cannot be labeled with words alone, it can come from within and radiate outwards, or it can shine like a silver dollar, but inside be filled with tin. To judge someone as beautiful from a simple glance is crazy, but to pass someone off as not being beautiful with that same simple glance is just as crazy.
To truly find out if someone is beautiful or not, you must get to know them. And to get to know someone you must not be afraid of approaching them and being yourself. Unfortunately many men ARE afraid, for whatever reason. And women like you are missing out on these nice men..the one’s who do care about more then your looks, the ones who want to know you inside and out, and the ones who want to share themselves with you but just don’t know how.
On another note, not all women have the luxury (or problem) of being approached and having a wide selectino of men. Some women are left to feel unworthy simply because the men who find them attractive fear approaching them. So not only do men benefit from overcoming their anxiety about women, but some women benefit as well.
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